Perfect relationship is a myth

Perfection refers to completion - like a finished product. A thing can be fashioned after a model and completed by a process to achieve a desired end. A relationship is all the time changing based on the experiences over which we have no control. For the same reason it cannot have a goal; it is like a living thing, changing from moment to moment, and any attempt to coerce it in some direction invites resistance. There can never be perfection in a relationship since it is not something that can be molded through a formula or a method. There is no process by which you eventually arrive at a pre-determined state. All we can do perhaps is to shed our ideas, conclusions and beliefs about it and meet it afresh every moment.